Why suicide is not an option.

Who has ever experienced disheartening moments in their lives and are contemplating suicide? Failed jobs,too many liars,failed love,a divorce…why is my marriage falling? How do i deal with such loss? I am certain we all have had our downsides.
I always come here with good news…there are reasons why you must never think suicide.For example,look at Job from the bible,for those going to be offended by my bible talk please try to listen to all sides,you never know where solutions can come from.Job lost all he had,all his wealth and riches,all he had ever worked for but did he at one time curse or blame God? Did he wish he would die? Did he wish he never lived? No,No,NO…Instead,he kept praising God for all He had done for him,for all the good things that he had had in his life.Keep in mind Job also was ill,suffering from leprosy.After all these was over,all the mockery he got from Satan,he never despaired but kept hoping and saying that all happens for a reason and that soon he knew that it will be good.
Now,think of yourself as Job,having great health,great life,kids,marriage and house…all these are world possessions,no one will carry them to the grave.Love is gone,or death has occurred,never ever want to kill yourself,this is against the will of God.We can never be like Job,i know,but it takes a courageous person,to accept to move on from any saddening life event.Just like Job,give thanks to even the ‘littlest’ thing.Thank Him for what He has always done for you all this while.Look back and say,even if am not there,am glad,i have at least had it all.
Life is precious and full of second,third and even endless chances and opportunities.God is too.SO,before jumping off that cliff,or river or taking those sedatives or any other way,think of the awesome things you will lose,think of the risk of never dying,think of the grief.Stop being selfish,the world needs you,we need you,your family needs you.Why are you then going before time? Stop being too hard on yourself,give yourself more chances,stop running away from your hurdles,face it[them],with a smile.It never lasts long,it only depends on what and how you want to deal with challenges.Whatever hatred saves the number.
Remember,we only live once,make the right choices and decisions.We have stages of growth too,embrace them all,a challenge is a stage of growth and opportunity.Hug these blessings in disguise,because they never last so long and after all is gone,life comes back to normal.Those who said,there is light at the end of the tunnel,summarised my writing.



What is making you sulk? Is it your job,not finding a spouse,not being where you want to be in terms of your goal?I have the solution with me…smile.Do you know that a smile spells confidence,love and overcome?Do wear a charming smile everywhere at all times and sure you will have so many friends or strangers approaching to ask a question.
Be sure to leave a positive mark on someone behind you with an angel’s smile. Smile is a charming welcome to your world.Someone may ask,why do you ear smiles in this tough economy?All is hard,life is a struggle and yet your face lights up,tell them it is because you chose to live life smiling and care less of the economy.Take a day at a time and live your day with a smile.

Those who surround you,encourage them to lessen up the wrinkles and frowns…tell them the advantages of a smile. A smile is a blessing and of you can achieve it,let others see it’s importance.We understand that we can’t be equals no matter what,but,picture this…you have a dire problem,like a financial crisis,then you meet a hungry person who looks so hopeless and helpless,try smiling at them,buy something for them to eat.you will see a face light up.Then tell them it is not them, you too have problems,no matter how smartly dressed you are. Or see a dying patient,who never takes off a smile on their face compare that patient with your frowning face,then ask yourself,who should be crying,you because you don’t have that designer shoe you have been craving or this person who has been told they have three months to live?

Look at yourself and say you are content with where you are now and what you are,if you see tomorrow,make someone smile and smile too as much as possible.Let not anything or anyone make you inferior or sad,keep smiling and do it with all your heart. Have a charming evening and goodnight to those who are sleeping.I hope to catch up with you again…with a smile of an angel!!!Keep talking i respond to everyone…floor is yours now…

Prayers are powerful


Sometimes,when we are down but never out,the only consolation is God. In prayers,we conquer all,never despair my friends.I love you all, i hopefully pray for us to meet again tomorrow in fresh mind,fresh heart.
Meanwhile,for those who are still awake,keep the St.Francis prayer somewhere and each day,plant a seed of hope,love,honesty,faith and encouragement.Keep reminding people that whatever they do,they are awesome.
Be blessed and stay blessed,much love from me to you darlings.

Though lies are sweet and the truth seems bitter,truth will endure every test,speak the truth always

This is a quote that everyone must live by.Why do we lie?Lying is a selfish way of saying that you are protecting your loved ones or hiding something from people you love.Quit lying,being open sets you free.I must admit though that sometimes one has to lie,like when you don’t want to pick a certain phone call or when you are just tired or just don’t want to be with some intolerable group or just to save ourselves from a situation.Please never turn a little lie here and there into serial lying.Save yourself lots of rehearsing,just be you.If for example, you don’t love or like a certain woman,please stop wasting her time tell her upfront but in a friendly way.
As the quote speaks out loud i leave you to ponder over it as i find something to keep you enticed to take a peep.

Reasons to never give up

Be of strong heart mind and soul and prove to the world that no matter your situation in life,nothing is impossible,for example look at Nick Vujicic,he has achieved far more than people with their limbs.If he felt pity on himself and believed the world was over for him,what would have happened.he chose to see beyond his impairments.He is not the only one,there are many physically impaired persons who have scaled to greater heights than most of us.They got a success story to share with us,stop whining,use what you have to scale to the height you have ever wanted or dreamt of.

Look at the beauty of life,look positive and you will get positive.Set your dreams and aspirations and make sure you achieve them.Develop patience in you,this is a virtue that has eluded all or most but build it and make patience a part of your daily prayer.
Giving thanks is far more important than what most people ever think of.When you wake up,give thanks.For the positive and negative in your life,never forget to say thank you.It shows you are confident and ready for anything,be open minded and accept that as humans we fall,rising is what makes us different.

Acknowledge that there is a power higher and mightier than you are.Give the almighty glory for He is gracious and without Him you will never been in existence.Why are you on earth?Do you ever wonder?You are not to live forever but the time you have now must never be spent on whining.Stop wasting time and act now,it is the now you have that you will be answerable to in the future.Or who told you,to just live recklessly because you don’t have to answer?You have to,change your ways as the time for reckoning is knocking and it is fast than you think.


Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
So that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us, it is in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.
– Marianne Williamson.

Need i say more?Have a good night and ask me why i haven’t been here lately.I never want to lose any of you,want to make you read more and more.So let’s do this in fresh minds and hearts.I love you all.