Sex is divine

It is a union,an intimate moment you share with the person you love. We have changed the meaning of sex into something new…paid sex.casual sex,i use what i have to get want i want,to name but a few. Am warning you,take care of your precious body,it is the temple of the Holy Spirit. The one who gave you that body is so powerful, He can take it from you when you are not using it properly.

Stay faithful,content with your partner.Stop soliciting some unwanted company out there it won’t help.There is a dangerous disease out there and far too many STDs that will weaken your body.I would prefer to know the source of any ailment i have rather than run around looking for the one who gave you i don’t know what.

Love your body and let men eat it with their eyes,give them a hard time to uncover whatever is underneath my dears. Show them you are carrying precious luggage and not some groceries they go pick at a grocery store. Keep ‘her’ as tight as possible,you can wait.When you get one who you believe makes you complete,have as much sex as you can.Enjoy it,but with only him!!!


how to lose weight

I saw some article here for people who are always looking forward for ways to lose weight and just leading a healthy lifestyle.Look out,i hope i post this right unlike some links that don’t work,sorry for the inconvenience.

Enjoy this great article and share for others to be enlightened on various ways to lose weight amicably and naturally.Sometimes our seriously searched answers are right under our noses.enjoy.

Body,health issues

Are you aware of your body?Do you notice when something is amiss and you need do some adjusting or are you just arrogant and never pay attention to what goes on in your body.Here is some news flash ladies:if you don’t care for you,who will?You notice you are adding weight and you don’t bother to ask yourself what is going on or even losing weight.It could be stress for weight loss and it could be too much junk for weight gain or even pregnancy.

You are having some pains while peeing,and you just brush it off or are too embarrassed to ask or visit a gynaecologist.Never be embarrassed to find out what is going on in your body.When you are down and out due to sickness,no one is going to care for you,you will be in pain all by your self.

Breast pains or breast discharge which you have never seen before but you say it will just go,please,some of these things or symptoms never go away they stay until they are treated.

Yes some are quite embarrassing to know or even ask but it is good to be informed and aware before something big comes out of it.Like for example who knows what your pooh says about you?It is embarrassing,right? You must be aware of some of these things.They affect us in one way or another even though we are not infected.

Keep track of your vagina,sometimes some birth control pills or methods you use might affect the smell of your down there.Or an infection or too much perfume or how you wash ‘her’.If anything unusual happens never be too shy.A little knowledge goes in hand and sometimes it is never a big problem.

It maybe just dry hands,mouth or legs but find out the cause,stress or depression affects our bodies as women so much and we must know when to correct our situations.

Changes in environment and birth control pills in most cases changes our body systems in a way that we may never understand.

I encourage all of you to really keep track of your body and any slight difference is a difference and must be taken with utmost care and concern.Stop neglecting your bodies,you must be at least aware of some things so that when you decide to visit a gynaecologist or doctor you will at least explain yourself and there is nothing good or easy for a gynaecologist than a woman who is aware of their bodies and changes in or out  there.

Do you normally neglect you,start checking what you are missing or what is ailing you.Start now and stay safe and aware!!!






Some controversial topic here now…I know… someone might wonder what am up to but I am not putting anyone down or anything.I just saw this somewhere and thought that I bring it to your attention.Who is a socialite really and what is this,someone may wonder.I have found some definitions on Wikipedia,urban dictionary and thesaurus and am finding almost the same definition.”Someone who has money and doesn’t work,instead devoting his or her life to being “socially active”‘.

I encourage women who want to be socialites to be classy or follow my links to be classy and it is always very simple.I wouldn’t tell anyone to be a socialite,to me that is a waste of time and a project for wannabes.Be you and quit trying too hard to impress people or being where you aren’t supposed to be.A socialite according to me is just someone who is trying to be what they are not and that is not so pleasing.All in all, we can never be the same and from everyone we learn something which makes this life very interesting.

I also found some interesting things on ways to be a socialite which is quite interesting…tell me what you think.…happy read and hope I have helped someone get a ‘job’,just kidding.Be You,Be You,Be You and you will never go wrong!

Easy steps to fulfilment,Encouragement and hope

Good Morning my people,am hoping you have had great times on here.Sorry I have  been away for a while but am here now,so no worry.I was researching on some various topics to get you stay tuned and motivated to come here looking for encouragement.First things first,how have you been?I am hoping you have been coping up very well and greatly in the Lord.

I want to encourage you out there to always be strong,be stead fast in prayer and always hang on no matter what happens to you.Life is a challenge but however you want to handle your life situations is what makes us different.Learn to appreciate fellow human beings and be of good and upright morals.Walk tall and remain tall.Never be brought down by anyone,,you hold the padlock and key to your life,whichever you choose to apply is on your own hands.

Respect and accord every human respect no matter how small or big they are,never look down on anyone for whatever reason.Be down to earth,by being down to earth i don’t necessarily mean you let people step all over you but rather,be approachable,be an example and an encouragement to other humans out there.

Remember to smile and give hope to the downcast.Smile is an encouraging welcome that no matter what you are undergoing you are still a very friendly person.A person who has an positive outlook towards life.Smile is a noble gift,not everyone has it,but if you have got it,why not share it?

Be a giving person,one who gives,receives even more.I mean it could be giving an idea,words of encouragement,wisdom,giving clothes and anything you have got to offer.Give with an open generous heart and do it like there is no tomorrow,Do it with love and never feel like it is an obligation.

Never ever take anyone for granted,your family,friends neighbours.People have got something to offer and everyone has their flaws.We can never be the same,but that is the beauty of life.Do unto others what you would love them to do unto you.Maintain your family,friends and anyone close to you close to your heart and don’t wait until they are dead or sick to show them or tell them how much you loved them.

You MUST remember that your time on earth is limited,but am sorry as one day you will have to explain how you used that time.What will you say?Do you have an account of the things that you hoped you had done,this is the time,there is no tomorrow.Your tomorrow is now,fix it.Never live a life of regrets,that is wasting time.Live now,embrace your wrongs and know that sometimes some things are better left how they are.Regrets is an impediment to self development.

Be wise and live responsibly.Don’t go and drink all your money in a bar or spend your money anyhow because there is no guarantee for tomorrow.NO.Live wisely,budget and know that there is limits in and on everything.

Stay positive and believe that no matter what,you will one day reach your destiny and your destiny will be so beautiful and a rewarding experience.

Eat balanced meals and drinks plenty of water.Exercise,maintain healthy eating and remember you are what you eat.A healthy woman is confident and of courage.A healthy woman is self motivated.

Stay blessed and fulfilled.




Writing (Photo credit: Wikipedia) thing I love writing is that you keep researching and giving people great works and encouragement.You reach a wider group of people and it gets more interesting day by day.In writing you have to understand what it is you are writing about,I must admit,it’s a learning process and you have got to be interested in it.You have to read extensively and research more from people,books,Google,observations made and a whole lot of things.Women who are writing find it interesting to write about many topics and all.While doing my usual Google “walk” I came across this beautiful article and I believe it will be of importance to one or many of us.Keep researching and telling me what it is you want to read here.I got more juicy topics to help my Indomitable women to keep reading and thinking about in the next few days,months and even years.Read the articles in the link above and keep me informed.Do have a great researching evening…will you? more…while I take a cup of tea and continue doing what I love most…!



Are you one of those people who use weight as an excuse for anything you do,for example I am so over weight I can’t find the man of my dreams,or I wish I was like her or had a body like hers or his.All this hype in vogue of skinny girls and bikini-like bodies is over exaggerated.Fashion models are so exclusive and elegant and anyone would want to date them or have their body and some women or men are paying high prices to have great bodies.Surgeries here and there,in the name of “I want to look good” is just one of the excuses that is used to distort some of the most amazing bodies ever.Appreciate you for you and you will never find the need to change your body or and features on your body.

I would say try to eat healthy and keep exercising and stop eating too much junk food as that is not a good way to lose weight or keep in shape.Don’t believe that a skinny body is heavenly,strut your stuff and don’t be ashamed to be in your body shape,ever.People will appreciate you for you and stop trying to be somebody else or some model you saw in the fashion magazine. particularly made me write about weight but as always, your input is more important.Keep contributing.